Katelyn had her hair in two french braids and decided to take a nap. As you can see the two did not combine terribly well, unless you're into fad hairdos of course!
I got Isaac to sit still long enough to get a small portion of his new haircut on "film". Amazing how most of what whey have on film is really just a bunch of lights on a computer screen.
I can't seem to figure out the images option, so they are on the side...
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Atonement
Capture your memories. The more I look on the past the more I realize that I have forgotten so much of what I thought I could never forget. Live for today, that’s for sure.
Most of the people you meet are probably like myself...living in yesterday or tomorrow. Having nastalgia about the past and excitement for the future. I don’t think those things are bad; I do think that a healthy appreciation of the moment right now, and now, and now, etc. will make myself and a lot of people a lot happier.
I’ve been reading Believing Christ, written by Robinson, and I think I finally understand the atonements role in our worthiness. Indulge me by reading on.
Say you have a negative balance on your debit account because you made a few small mistakes. No matter how small they were the bank is not happy with you.
Now, If you were to marry someone who had a healthy savings account (an infinite amount of resources) then no matter how negative your account is the debt is repaid.
When Christ atoned for our pains and sins he had the infinite mercy and paid all of justice in full. When we think that we need to be perfect and others need to be perfect in order to be worthy to talk to Father in Heaven, or think that we are worth anything, we are refusing to allow Christ to pay our balance.
If we instead choose to be baptized and confirmed, and take on the covenant with Christ, we say that we will allow him to make up for our weaknesses until we learn how to be perfect. The problem is that because we beforehand thought we had to be perfect to return to the father we still kind of think that way. We have to have a desire. We have to try. We have to forsake our wrongs over and over. When we choose to return to Him we can. It is only our own desire for independence that keeps us from being interdependent with the Father the Son and the Holy Spirit. I don’t know how to better say what is in my heart.
The people you teach will not be perfect when they join the church. They will not be perfect when they die. But if they allow a broken heart and a contrite spirit to fill them and truly forsake their sins (as tempting as they are) they will find happiness. Each sin we forsake brings us more happiness, less dependence on Satan hollow incentives, and an less difficult path to conquer the next vice. Knowing that Christ makes them perfect lets them know of their infinite worth. No matter what they do, no matter what they think, no matter how poorly they feel they are infinitely worthy to him. He loves them when they have committed the blackest of sins. So it is their choice, once they know they are making it, to turn and progress towards Him or turn and digress away from Him.
It is that simple. Either you are “trying to be like Jesus” or you are not.
You are beautiful and full of life! Keep sharing that with those who you serve. Lose your life in the work and you will discover a greater deeper life than you ever imagined. Remember that you are there to bring all people the greatest happiness you can. That does not mean baptize everyone, (for you’ve obviously learned they will make their own choices whether or not that makes them happy), it means that you love them for who they are. When they are ready they will receive it like a runner drinks water after a race, or a freshly tilled garden receives water and sunshine. Tell that to the members who feel discouraged about missionary work. That way they won’t feel like they have to change their friends. Instead they will live in glorious truth and love their neighbors; and their lights cannot be hid.
Most of the people you meet are probably like myself...living in yesterday or tomorrow. Having nastalgia about the past and excitement for the future. I don’t think those things are bad; I do think that a healthy appreciation of the moment right now, and now, and now, etc. will make myself and a lot of people a lot happier.
I’ve been reading Believing Christ, written by Robinson, and I think I finally understand the atonements role in our worthiness. Indulge me by reading on.
Say you have a negative balance on your debit account because you made a few small mistakes. No matter how small they were the bank is not happy with you.
Now, If you were to marry someone who had a healthy savings account (an infinite amount of resources) then no matter how negative your account is the debt is repaid.
When Christ atoned for our pains and sins he had the infinite mercy and paid all of justice in full. When we think that we need to be perfect and others need to be perfect in order to be worthy to talk to Father in Heaven, or think that we are worth anything, we are refusing to allow Christ to pay our balance.
If we instead choose to be baptized and confirmed, and take on the covenant with Christ, we say that we will allow him to make up for our weaknesses until we learn how to be perfect. The problem is that because we beforehand thought we had to be perfect to return to the father we still kind of think that way. We have to have a desire. We have to try. We have to forsake our wrongs over and over. When we choose to return to Him we can. It is only our own desire for independence that keeps us from being interdependent with the Father the Son and the Holy Spirit. I don’t know how to better say what is in my heart.
The people you teach will not be perfect when they join the church. They will not be perfect when they die. But if they allow a broken heart and a contrite spirit to fill them and truly forsake their sins (as tempting as they are) they will find happiness. Each sin we forsake brings us more happiness, less dependence on Satan hollow incentives, and an less difficult path to conquer the next vice. Knowing that Christ makes them perfect lets them know of their infinite worth. No matter what they do, no matter what they think, no matter how poorly they feel they are infinitely worthy to him. He loves them when they have committed the blackest of sins. So it is their choice, once they know they are making it, to turn and progress towards Him or turn and digress away from Him.
It is that simple. Either you are “trying to be like Jesus” or you are not.
You are beautiful and full of life! Keep sharing that with those who you serve. Lose your life in the work and you will discover a greater deeper life than you ever imagined. Remember that you are there to bring all people the greatest happiness you can. That does not mean baptize everyone, (for you’ve obviously learned they will make their own choices whether or not that makes them happy), it means that you love them for who they are. When they are ready they will receive it like a runner drinks water after a race, or a freshly tilled garden receives water and sunshine. Tell that to the members who feel discouraged about missionary work. That way they won’t feel like they have to change their friends. Instead they will live in glorious truth and love their neighbors; and their lights cannot be hid.
Monday, January 5, 2009
Stephen R. Covey did 200 years of reasearch!!!
I am reading for pleasure these days! It is so wonderful to truly delve into a work and be able to read a paragraph twice with out a debt of time. (No finals pressing or homework dependant on the works read.)
One of the books I am reading is the THE 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE; though I'm not exactly sure why it is in all caps. Maybe that makes it more readable. How do they decide on things like that? Anyway, so, I have been feeling warm fuzzies as I read the pages of the first chapter. It speaks of the very things I have been trying to incorporate into my family's life and my own.
..."almost all the literature in the first 150 years or so focused on what could be called the Character Ethic as the foundation of success--things like integrity, humility, fidelity, temperance, courage, justice, patience, industry, simplicity, modesty, and the Golden Rule. Benjamin Franklin's autobiography is representative of that literature. It is, basically, the story of one man's effort to inegrate certain principles and habits deep within his nature." (pg. 18)
I am realizing that I need to have these essential characteristics more ingrained in my person. An "Aha!" moment hit me that I also need to have my personal validation based on myself and not the accomplishments of my children. Etc.
The best thing about reading this book is that I feel like I've already started down the road that 150 years of experience says will lead to a successful and happy life. Though flawed, I am on the right path moving in a good direction. I also feel more equipped to help others find that path and blossom in their own capacities.
One of the books I am reading is the THE 7 HABITS OF HIGHLY EFFECTIVE PEOPLE; though I'm not exactly sure why it is in all caps. Maybe that makes it more readable. How do they decide on things like that? Anyway, so, I have been feeling warm fuzzies as I read the pages of the first chapter. It speaks of the very things I have been trying to incorporate into my family's life and my own.
..."almost all the literature in the first 150 years or so focused on what could be called the Character Ethic as the foundation of success--things like integrity, humility, fidelity, temperance, courage, justice, patience, industry, simplicity, modesty, and the Golden Rule. Benjamin Franklin's autobiography is representative of that literature. It is, basically, the story of one man's effort to inegrate certain principles and habits deep within his nature." (pg. 18)
I am realizing that I need to have these essential characteristics more ingrained in my person. An "Aha!" moment hit me that I also need to have my personal validation based on myself and not the accomplishments of my children. Etc.
The best thing about reading this book is that I feel like I've already started down the road that 150 years of experience says will lead to a successful and happy life. Though flawed, I am on the right path moving in a good direction. I also feel more equipped to help others find that path and blossom in their own capacities.
Friday, December 26, 2008
Katie bug
Last night we were playing a game of Settlers that went into the night.... Then we realized we should put the kidlets to bed. Brian volunteered to help Katelyn.
A short while later he came upstairs to let me know Katelyn wanted Mommy to come and say prayers. So we totally paused the game and I went downstairs to the guest bedroom. When I arrived she was on her side with her eyes closed.
I asked, "are you already asleep?" She kept her eyes closed and nodded her head. I chuckled and told Brian "She nodded her head that she was asleep!" Again she nodded her head with a little smile tickling the edges of her lips. :)
The children went to sleep quickly and we were able to resume our game. As we played I told Cole (my sister in law) about Katelyn's little joke. She thought it was so cute.
A short while later he came upstairs to let me know Katelyn wanted Mommy to come and say prayers. So we totally paused the game and I went downstairs to the guest bedroom. When I arrived she was on her side with her eyes closed.
I asked, "are you already asleep?" She kept her eyes closed and nodded her head. I chuckled and told Brian "She nodded her head that she was asleep!" Again she nodded her head with a little smile tickling the edges of her lips. :)
The children went to sleep quickly and we were able to resume our game. As we played I told Cole (my sister in law) about Katelyn's little joke. She thought it was so cute.
Who's Bristy?
So, the reason for the name...
Our dear friend Max christened us Bristy when we were first married. We no longer had individual identities with the sealing in place...so he said. So we became Bristy. Recently I was emailing him an invitation to visit our home when he came into town. I signed it BristyKataac now that we have two children. He loved it! So it stuck.
(Brian: Bri Kristy: sty Katelyn: kat Isaac: aac add them all together=Bristykataac)
Our dear friend Max christened us Bristy when we were first married. We no longer had individual identities with the sealing in place...so he said. So we became Bristy. Recently I was emailing him an invitation to visit our home when he came into town. I signed it BristyKataac now that we have two children. He loved it! So it stuck.
(Brian: Bri Kristy: sty Katelyn: kat Isaac: aac add them all together=Bristykataac)
Wednesday, December 24, 2008
So, Brian's brother Mark said the blog should have more on it than trees and their by-products. So we took some family pictures (with the generous help from my talented father) and put them on a CD. We toted them around for a while trying to find a computer that would magically let them appear (for our Mac didn't like the CD done by Vista). Now, at Brian's parents we have found the magic cure and may view and post pictures from the magic disc of information!
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
the story of the animals
I have always wanted to learn to carve. Even more specific...I wanted to carve a nativity. I've tried chisling away into different pieces of wood in an unsuccessful manner.
This time I started from a different angle. I had already planned on revamping the animals in a Noah's Ark that Kimberly gave me. I decided that I would use the rough animal forms to shape what I wanted them to.
Surprisingly the donkey turned out pretty well. the sheep from a rabbit was more difficult, but it's fair. I wish it could have a longer snout; but it will have to work.
I'll have to post pictures as they come up!
This time I started from a different angle. I had already planned on revamping the animals in a Noah's Ark that Kimberly gave me. I decided that I would use the rough animal forms to shape what I wanted them to.
Surprisingly the donkey turned out pretty well. the sheep from a rabbit was more difficult, but it's fair. I wish it could have a longer snout; but it will have to work.
I'll have to post pictures as they come up!
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